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I must say this has been the biggest challenge in my entire life. This gives me time to calm down and think about how I want to say something.

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But some individuals experience repeated meltdowns in which tension mounts until there is an explosive release.

The adult version of a meltdown may include any of the following (just to name a few): On the mild end of the continuum, the adult in meltdown may simply say some things that are overly critical and disrespectful, thus ultimately destroying the relationship with the other party (or parties) in many cases.

Women who understand what it's like to be married to someone with Aspergers - no one else can even begin to understand the challenge. She is trying to understand and reach out for help. There were some arguments that I now understand were down to mutual misunderstanding from our brains being "wired differently" .

Many of the people at the adult Asperger's support groups I go to comment that their diagnosis made their marriages to their NT partner much happier. It points out that both people in the relationship need to work at understanding the other. Or times when we both felt a little unloved or uncared for because we didn't recognise the way the other was expressing their love.

What advice would you have for a couple that is experiencing marital problems due to the fact that one partner’s brain is wired differently? "I need you to take out the trash because I'm cooking dinner." "It upsets me when you ignore me for video games because it makes me feel like you'd rather play games than be married to me. There's a quiz you can both take that will tell you your love language, which was crazy eye-opening for me and my husband.• Anonymous said... Read everything about it, have someone to talk to, have your OWN free time and try to be as rational as you can when you talk to him which you have to do when you know he is in the "listening mode".

One thing that helps me is to write my thoughts and feelings down, then have him read them.Aspergers adults who experience meltdowns are also at significantly increased risk of harming themselves, either with intentional injuries or suicide attempts.Those who are also addicted to drugs or alcohol have a greatest risk of harming themselves.Once I learned to take a step back, breathe, and think of a reasonable argument in a calm, low tone, things got SO much better. I'll talk from your hubsnd's perspective, if you'll permit.Although a person with AS can tell they've angered or disappointed you, they rarely understand why.Meltdowns, usually lasting 5 to 20 minutes, may occur in clusters or be separated by weeks or months in which the Aspergers adult maintains his/her composure.

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